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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Let me set the scene, the Israelites (possibly numbering more than 2 million at this point in time) have been driven from Egypt after the ten plagues and they’ve entered the wilderness and have no idea where they are going. God knows the weakness of the people, so He is taking them the long way...</p>
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<p>Let me set the scene, the Israelites (possibly numbering more than 2 million at this point in time) have been driven from Egypt after the ten plagues and they’ve entered the wilderness and have no idea where they are going. God knows the weakness of the people, so He is taking them the long way about to avoid conflict with the Philistines. But the people essentially have no idea where they are going.&nbsp;</p>



<p>God knows where they are going. God has a plan. He’s had a plan. He’s known since Abraham where He was going to bring this people. But the Israelites—they don’t know where they are heading. They know they are heading to the land promised to Jacob. But they don’t know the way and they certainly don’t know the plan.&nbsp;</p>



<p>God comes to them in a pillar of cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night. He goes before them and they are left to follow the cloud or the fire, depending on the time of day. God doesn’t give Moses a map—He gives them Himself as a guide.&nbsp;</p>



<p>Day by day, moment by moment, the people just have to look to God and go where He leads. They have to match His movement and His timing. They can’t see the plan—but they can see Him.&nbsp;</p>



<p>&nbsp;In my life, I’m so often looking for the plan. I want a map. I want to know where I’m going and how I plan to get there. Maybe it is personality, but I think it is human nature in large part. I want to know what God wants me to do, not in a “right now” sense, but in a planned way.&nbsp;</p>



<p>I even find myself looking back on where He has led me and the things He has brought me through and try to figure out how that is fitting into some big picture. Sometimes it fits, sometimes He’s led me to do things that make no sense to where I am. But even in looking back, I’m trying to figure out the plan. Where on earth (or heaven) is He bring me?&nbsp;</p>



<p>That’s just not how God leads us. Honestly, it is probably for the best. The wilderness may be necessary to build up strength, grit, and faith to face the giants that unknowingly lay before us. If we saw the giants before we went through what we’ll need to go through, could we take that step to start?&nbsp;</p>



<p>God is calling us, not to look for the plan, but to look to Him. He is calling each of us to follow his movements and timing moment by moment. He is calling us to trust that He will fight for us (Exodus 14:14), we just need to follow Him. We may not see the point or the plan, but we will get a glimpse of something even better- Him.&nbsp;</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This post originally appeared in the Doorposts column on the John and Charles Wesley Center for Christian Thought and Apologetics. You can find the original post here. Looking for Community You will not find so much loathing as you will find in an online mom’s group. As a new mom looking for a way out...</p>
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<p>You will not find so much loathing as you will find in an online mom’s group. As a new mom looking for a way out of the loneliness that accompanied leaving the bustling world outside my home for the bustling world inside my home, I found myself surrounded by seasoned women who did nothing but disparage their husbands and curse their children. These women were proud to be “hot messes” and took great pride in their attempts at “self-care”. Their entire lives revolved around painting themselves to be <a href="https://amzn.to/3YGixpK" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">Cinderella</a> for their families. Poor them. They had to change <a href="https://amzn.to/40muCBC" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">diapers</a>. Poor them. They had to provide <a href="https://amzn.to/3YG4pg9" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">snacks</a> for hungry toddlers. Poor them. They had to <a href="https://amzn.to/4hrpwu8" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">vacuum</a> the living room. And I could see how this thankless work could become a burden, but I could <em>also</em> see that this was exactly what I’d been praying for. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Loneliness Not Required</h2>



<p>Motherhood doesn’t have to be lonely; it isn’t meant to be. As <a href="https://amzn.to/4e5DHBV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">Paul writes to Titus</a>, the Church should be offering the community opportunities that new mothers so desperately need. (And young fathers, and singles, and seniors.) He knew that young mothers would need mentors. Older women would need someone to pour into. He knew young men would need to be guided. Older men needed a way to give back. I find it fascinating that Paul knew what the alternative would be. Reviling of the word of God. (Revile: loathe: curse: disparage.) Reviling that man should not be alone and the two will become one. Reviling that children are a blessing and inheritance from the LORD. Sound familiar? </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Needing the Real Church</h2>



<p>When we look at our own church community, we tend to think about what they can do for us. We want a community that looks exactly like where we are in life. We’re <a href="https://amzn.to/4flpKB2" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">Goldilocks</a> going from church to church saying, “Too old,” “Too young,” “Too formal,” “Too casual,” “Too big,” “Too small”—looking for that one “magical” church that we can declare is “just right”. But that’s not the Church Paul is describing. We don’t need to find others exactly where we are to be benefitted by a community of believers. We need whomever God has sent us in our local church. </p>



<p>As a young mom, that meant a few moms a decade older than me and a lot of grandmothers and great-grandmothers. I loved the church I had my first children in. I might not have taken all their advice (I wasn’t going to feed my babies raw eggs or give them sugar wrapped in <a href="https://amzn.to/3C2h0Bs" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">cheesecloth</a> as a <a href="https://amzn.to/4f5pcQ0" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">pacifier</a>), but I did appreciate their experience. They were hard-working women who stood alongside their husbands and raised strong kids in church. I needed them! And I like to think they needed me, too. Even though I really only had baby rolls and toddlers crawling under pews during service to offer. (And some amazing glazed carrots.) That is what the Body is meant to be. I didn’t need to wallow. I needed to learn to be strong, self-controlled, and work hard in my home. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Middle Motherhood Needs the Church</h2>



<p>Now, I’m a middle mom. (I just coined that term), I’ve got teenagers (and babies), but I’m not “done”. But I know where I fit in my church community. Encouragement. Teaching what is good. Training young moms to love their kids and their husbands and to work hard in their homes. I know where I fit into this picture. (Thanks, Paul.) I’m sometimes the one still needing training. I’m now sometimes the one doing the training. But we all have our place because we aren’t meant to do this alone. We all need one another in the body. And it seems that is especially true of mothers. (See how much emphasis Paul is putting on the church ladies?)&nbsp;</p>



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<p>If you’re a new mom, forget the mom groups. Just open up to the women God has already given you. If you don’t have a church home, find one. Settle in. Get to know people. Let them get to know you. Find your mentors. Don’t revile the things God has blessed you with. You&nbsp;<em>get</em><em>&nbsp;</em>to care for those babies. You&nbsp;<em>get</em><em>&nbsp;</em>to serve your husband. You&nbsp;<em>get</em>&nbsp;a home to manage, clean, adorn, and care for. These are blessings! Don’t be tricked into thinking a blessing is a curse.&nbsp;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">All Moms Need the Church</h2>



<p>If you’re not a new mom, forget mom groups. Open up to the women God has already given you. If you don’t have a church home, find one. Settle in. Get to know people. Let them get to know you. Find people you can pour yourself into. Find people who can pour themselves into you.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">We Need the Church</h2>



<p>I know this is largely focused on moms. Mostly, that is because I am a mom. But also, because this openness and mentorship type relationship isn’t common for women. Men tend to seek out mentorship. Women tend to be more competitive and seek out places to vent. But men, be open with the men in your life. Find community and accountability. Don’t revile the things God has blessed you with. I need all of you there. And you need me.</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This article originally appeared on The John and Charles Wesley Center for Apologetics and Christian Thought. You can find the original article here. First, Some Context on Choose Today Before he dies, Joshua gathers the tribe of Israel, and they present themselves to Yahweh. Yahweh wants to renew His covenant with these people. He reminds...</p>
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<p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://jcwcenter.org">The John and Charles Wesley Center for Apologetics and Christian Thought</a>. You can find the <a href="https://jcwcenter.org/choose-today/">original article here</a>. </em></p>



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<p>Before he dies, Joshua gathers the tribe of Israel, and they present themselves to Yahweh. Yahweh wants to renew His covenant with these people. He reminds them of all He has done for their fathers before them. He reminds them of all He has done for them.</p>



<p> Then, we come to verses 14 and 15 of <a href="https://amzn.to/3zyRNxE" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">chapter 24</a>. Joshua tells the people, “Alright, guys. It’s time to be sincere and faithful. It is time to let go of the false gods. It is time to choose if you’re going to be the people of Yahweh or not.” Joshua then lets them know where he stands. “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (v.15). The people gathered answer, “Sure. We’ll do that, too.” </p>



<p>And Joshua responds by telling the people, “You can’t do this. This is hard. You are going to fail, and then it is going to be super bad for you because Yahweh doesn’t like it when His people serve other gods.” But the people double-down: “No way, Joshua! We want to serve the Lord.” So, Joshua says, “Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool… I warned you. But <em>you </em>heard you; you’re choosing Yahweh. Now, put away your idols, and turn your hearts to the Lord.” And they say, “Yahweh is our God, and we will obey His voice!” Joshua then sets up a stone to remind the people of their covenant so that they don’t go back on their word. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Choosing Today</h2>



<p>Like Joshua, I’m calling you here today, before the Lord, to decide who you’re going to serve. Too many Christians are ‘Christian’ in name only (which means they are very much <em>not</em> Christian in reality). You’ve got other gods in your <a href="https://amzn.to/4gNDUMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">pocket</a>, your <a href="https://amzn.to/4edFNk5" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">calendar</a>, and your <a href="https://amzn.to/47MbLSb" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">checkbook</a>. You keep wondering why your kids are doing the same things your ‘secular’ neighbor’s kids do, while you’re doing the same things your ‘secular’ neighbor does. You’re looking over at Egypt, and you’re wanting the things they have. You’re neglecting to see the work of God in your life and, instead, are coveting the life of your godless neighbor. </p>



<p>Some of us— well, we’re choosing to be Christian in more than name only. We’re going to&nbsp;<em>actually</em>&nbsp;follow Jesus. I invite you to come along. Choose today whom your family will serve. Will you serve yourselves as so many in our culture do? Will you serve money? Will you serve ease and comfort? Whatever you choose— choose it. Please stop saying you’re a follower of Jesus while you’re living out in the weeds of sin. Jesus has the power to save us, so stop wallowing in your sin while trying to wear His name. Choose. Pick a side. (There are no neutral parties, here.)&nbsp;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Does it Really Mean to Choose Jesus?</h2>



<p>We’re pressing on. We’re working for&nbsp;<em>His</em>&nbsp;Kingdom. We’re living for&nbsp;<em>Him</em>. We’re raising our kids in&nbsp;<em>His</em>&nbsp;word and on&nbsp;<em>His</em>&nbsp;terms. We’re letting&nbsp;<em>Him</em>&nbsp;shape our lives. We’re seeking and listening to&nbsp;<em>His</em>&nbsp;voice. We’re not content to let another generation rise that doesn’t know His voice. We’re not content to settle for the fool’s gold this world has to offer. We’re bowing before Jesus and no other. If you call yourself a Christian, join me in raising Christian kids at the foot of the cross.&nbsp;</p>



<p>Joshua&nbsp;<em>wasn’t</em>&nbsp;wrong. We&nbsp;<em>can’t</em>&nbsp;do it; we don’t have the power to live lives worthy of the calling of Yahweh. But Jesus&nbsp;<em>can</em>. By following Him, by letting Him direct our steps, by letting Him live in us and through us, we’ll find our lives shining with the light of Heaven here on Earth. If we obey His voice, in Him, we can.&nbsp;</p>



<p>So, choose today. Either be the follower of Jesus you claim to be or stake a claim elsewhere.</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This post was originally an article that was part of a weekly column at The John and Charles Wesley Center for Christian Thought and Apologetics. You can see the original article here. Do you ever feel a little bit bad for Joshua? I mean, can you even imagine being the guy who follows the act...</p>
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<p class="has-small-font-size"><em>This post was originally an article that was part of a weekly column at <a href="https://jcwcenter.org">The John and Charles Wesley Center for Christian Thought and Apologetics</a>. You can see the <a href="https://jcwcenter.org/shoes-too-big-to-fill/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">original article here</a>. </em></p>



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<p>Do you ever feel a little bit bad for Joshua? I mean, can you even imagine being the guy who follows the act of Moses? Moses. THE Moses. He brought the people out of Egypt! He parted the Red Sea! Those are the shoes Joshua has to fill. It is no wonder Yahweh says to him multiple times, “Be strong and courageous!” (<a href="https://amzn.to/3TYEzBt" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">Joshua</a> 1:6, 7, 9, 18). Moses dies, and God immediately turns to Joshua and says, “You’re up!” </p>



<p>I often feel like Joshua must have felt. I feel like I’m walking in shoes far too big for me to fill. The weight of the souls in my care feels like more than I can really bear. I’m supposed to be shaping eight everlasting souls! That doesn’t even take into account the impossible amount of <a href="https://amzn.to/4e7GGuI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">laundry</a>, <a href="https://amzn.to/4daxFzz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">dishes</a>, and <a href="https://amzn.to/3MRIlsb" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">never-ending cooking</a> I have to accomplish. Add to that their entire education since I’m a <a href="https://amzn.to/4ewW17B" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">homeschool mom</a>, and this task is too big! I know I can’t be the only one who sometimes thinks, “Who thought it was a good idea to make me their mom?!” I feel like a little guy plodding along where giants should be running. </p>



<p>And here is the thing: These feelings are completely correct. Joshua had no power in himself to lead the Israelites to the Promised Land and into the victory God had promised. Joshua had no way of fulfilling that promise himself. What he did have was Yahweh. How could Joshua fill these massive shoes and walk straight into the land of giants? How could he have courage with such a big task? “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go” (Joshua 1:9, <a href="https://amzn.to/3TCcdg5" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">ESV</a>). Joshua could only accomplish what he was called to do because of Yahweh. He could only lead the people to the Promised Land and victory because Yahweh was with him. </p>



<p>The shoes really are too big. But the secret is that I’m not really meant to fill them. I’m meant to walk with Yahweh as He shapes their souls. He’ll give me the strength and courage I need for the task. He will not abandon me in what He has called me to do.&nbsp;The task isn’t easy. It does take courage. But the&nbsp;Lord&nbsp;is there. So be strong and courageous as you step out into the shoes that are too big to fill,&nbsp;because God is with you.</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This post originally appeared on the John and Charles Wesley Center for Christian Thought and Apologetics as part of a column called The Doorposts. You can visit the original here. What is Crisis Mode? Crisis mode. Those seasons in which you can’t possibly see enough to plan ahead at all—not even to Friday. Those days...</p>
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<p><em>This post originally appeared on the <a href="https://jcwcenter.org" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">John and Charles Wesley Center for Christian Thought and Apologetics</a> as part of a column called </em>The Doorposts<em>. You can visit the <a href="https://jcwcenter.org/get-out-of-crisis-mode/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">original here</a>. </em></p>



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<p>Crisis mode. Those seasons in which you can’t possibly see enough to plan ahead at all—not even to Friday. Those days in which you are struggling to make it to bedtime. Those times when life gets crazy and the kids end up watching way too much TV and consuming way too much fast food. The times when you don’t have the mental bandwidth for a conversation.</p>



<p>We’ve all been there. Sometimes, it’s when you’re adding a new baby to the family. Or when your parent is sick and you’re spending your mental strength getting them and yourself through that. Maybe you moved and your feet aren’t quite under you yet. You’re in crisis mode. You’re just trying to get by each day. You just need to eek into tomorrow. </p>



<p>There are times when, really and truly, that is all we can do. We can only do this moment and simply cannot think past it. We lean into Jesus, and we just hang on as we pummel to the bottom of the valley. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Stopping the Cycle of Crisis Mode</h2>



<p>But crisis mode doesn’t last forever. Yet, for far too many Christian parents, we spend the majority of our children’s lives parenting in crisis mode. We never get our feet under us. We never see beyond <em>this</em> moment. We certainly don’t plan for the future. Our entire parenting life is spent just trying to eek into tomorrow. We make decisions that aren’t for the long-term good of our family. </p>



<p>The thief would like for us to continue that way. He’d love nothing more than to steal your joy, intentionality, and love for your family. Our adversary would love nothing more than to destroy any hopes for discipleship and community within the family (and the Family of God). He’d love for you to stay so busy and so tired that you cannot possibly see a way out of&nbsp;<em>this</em>&nbsp;moment right now.</p>



<p>But Jesus has bigger plans for us. Jesus wants us to have abundant life. He wants us to thrive, not just eek by.&nbsp;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Practical Helps on Getting Out of Crisis Mode</h2>



<p>So how do we get there? How do we get out of the cycle of crisis mode? Can we get beyond this moment? How can we reclaim what the thief is trying to steal from our family?&nbsp;</p>



<p>First, we pray. Often, when we say we’re holding onto Jesus, we’re just holding onto some vague idea of hope. We aren’t <em>actually</em> praying. We aren’t <em>actually</em> reading the <a href="https://amzn.to/3B9P91X" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">Bible</a>. We aren’t <em>actually</em> availing ourselves to His grace in our lives. We’re holding onto the idea that Jesus will be like a fairy godmother and sweep into our mess at some point and just bippity-boppity-boop it all okay. We aren’t truly asking Him to step in; we’re just holding out a weak hope that perhaps He will. Faith is bigger than that, Fam. Jesus is more than that. He is our hope for the future but also our hope for today, for this moment, for this situation.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Pulling Away in Crisis Mode</h2>



<p>We pull away from His people, where He works. We pull away from the hands and feet He sends. Waiting around for that magic wand to turn our pumpkin into a carriage. Stop vaguely hoping and find a hope that is deep, real, and lasting. Pray. Seek Him. Give Him your cares in prayer. If your faith is floundering, I suggest keeping a prayer journal so you can watch God at work. Write down the date and your specific requests. Leave some room for the answers. When a prayer is answered, write down the answer and that date. You’ll be surprised at how much and how quickly God often works. We tend to forget. Our vision is short-sighted. We forget we were even praying about the kid’s cough last week because that is gone now, so now, we’re praying for something else which we too will probably forget. But God is faithful, even if our memories are not.</p>



<p>Don’t pull away; lean in. Often in times of crisis (which we’ve established is just a way of life for some of us), we pull away from the Church. We pull away from our friends. We don’t share our burdens with them. We don’t want people to know our struggles, and we certainly don’t want them to help. The thief likes this about us. Isolated people are easier to tempt. Isolated people tend to magnify their own problems. Isolated people are easier to destroy. Don’t pull away from the grace God gives us. He gave us one another. He works through His people. Stay with His people. Let them help lighten your burden. Let them help bring some perspective to your situation.&nbsp;</p>



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<p>We tend to pull away from <a href="https://amzn.to/4em7Ttq" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">spiritual discipline</a>. We become too busy and too burdened for that “just one more thing”. So, we stop reading our <a href="https://amzn.to/4gyXhZI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">Bible</a>. We stop fasting. We stop feasting. We stop worshipping. We stop listening. We just stop. Shutting out the voice of God doesn’t make the thief’s voice quieter—it amplifies it. Shutting out the voice of God isn’t going to alleviate your burdens—it is only going to make them heavier and make you weaker while trying to carry them. Don’t pull away. </p>



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<p>Next, we sort our priorities now. Today. We don’t wait for things to get easier. We don’t wait for things to get lighter. We choose today whom we will serve (Joshua 24:14-15). So, whom do you really serve? Many of us live our lives to serve ourselves. We want to say we are Christian families, but if we look at our priorities, it is clear we are serving the great American god of Self. </p>



<p>How do you know your true priorities and not just the “look good on paper” versions? Look at your <a href="https://amzn.to/47wHAhA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">calendar</a>. Where is the <em>most</em> time spent? Where is the <em>best</em> time spent? Where is the <em>first</em> time spent? Which parts are written in pen and which in pencil? (Metaphorically, of course; I know some parts might actually be written in <a href="https://amzn.to/4d8N0R7" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow">crayon</a>.) Look at your checkbook. Where is the <em>most</em> money spent? Where is the <em>first</em> money spent? What parts of the budget are non-negotiable?</p>



<p>If you’re like most American families (even professing-Christian ones), you might be surprised to see that your serving children’s sports and activities above all else. You might find that your entertainment and “me” time have become those non-negotiable, written-in-pen activities. You may find that, while you say you’re a Christian family, nothing about your calendar or bank account will verify that claim. You may find that you’re [actually only just] trying to “squeeze in” those religious things to appease that part of your brain saying, “I’m not doing this life-thing right.” </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Packing in Too Much</h2>



<p>We find ourselves living in crisis mode outside of a crisis because we’re devoting ourselves to the wrong things and to too many things all at once. When we choose a child’s sport activity before worship, what we say with our actions is that faith isn’t as important. When we find ourselves choosing personal entertainment over family dinner, what we say with our actions is that I’m more important than the family. (And I’m talking about consistently choosing, not a once-in-a-while thing.) Are we teaching our children that my personal comfort and temporary amusement is more important than Jesus? …than them?&nbsp;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Evaluate Real vs. Ideal Priorities</h2>



<p>Take a long, hard, critical look at your priorities. Pause everything else for as long as you need in order to get first things first. Take a family break from everything that isn’t top-billing. This will help you <em>actually</em> start living the life you <em>intend</em> to be living. It will get you out of crisis mode and just eeking by. </p>



<p>Those things on pause—don’t add those things back in without thinking through what you’re giving up to have them in your life. Every ‘yes’ also comes with a ‘no’. Be aware of that so you can say ‘yes’ wholeheartedly, with intentionality, and say ‘no’ without guilt.</p>



<p>When you are in actual crisis, go back to these priorities. Start saying ‘no’ to the extras more so you can still live with intentionality and not be crushed under the current burden. (Also, let others help you carry the load.) Live life intentionally. Raise your kids intentionally. Don’t just run from one crisis to the next. When you are in crisis, know which things are immovable and which things are extras. Jesus wants your family to have abundant life. The thief wants to steal your hope, joy, and family. The thief wants to bury you. Don’t help him.</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m scrolling through Instagram when I wake up this morning and come across a hashtag that gets my mind rolling. #wordbeforeworld . Now, this isn&#8217;t the first time I had seen the hashtag. I have seen @wellwateredwomen posting it for several days now. But it was the first time I stopped and took note. What...</p>
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<p>I&#8217;m scrolling through Instagram when I wake up this morning and come across a hashtag that gets my mind rolling. #wordbeforeworld . Now, this isn&#8217;t the first time I had seen the hashtag. I have seen @wellwateredwomen posting it for several days now. But it was the first time I stopped and took note.</p>
<p>What is the first thing I do when I wake up? Usually grumble about the kids already being awake and lament how late I stayed up the night before. But the first thing I usually choose to do after pulling myself out of bed and getting ready for the day is grab my iPad and start checking social media. I choose to plunge into the world first. Always. The Word part normally comes when I&#8217;ve done everything else I need to do for the day. Sure, we get into the Word every morning during Morning Basket time, so I guess I could count that. But before I even do morning basket, I&#8217;m checking my social media accounts.</p>
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<p>Of course, my mind went to Deuteronomy chapter 6. The people of God are being told not to forget who they are and what God has done for them. They are to teach their children, talk of them in their house, talk of God&#8217;s commands walking around going about their day. They are to write them on the doorposts of their houses. And they are to think of them when they lie down and <strong>when they rise up</strong>.</p>
<p>It got me thinking of the giving of the first fruits, something we remind ourselves when we tithe. We give God the first of what he has given to us. So, what is more valuable than our time? The days, hours, and minutes we have? Why wouldn&#8217;t we give the first of our time each day, too?</p>
<p>Essentially, when I choose social media before getting into the Word of God, I&#8217;m stating my priorities for the day. Connection, news, self-image- all those things we tie up in social media- I&#8217;m saying those are the most important for me. I&#8217;m saying that my FOMO (fear of missing out) on the world is more important than my FOMO on God.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying there is anything wrong with social media. I think we, as Christians, need to remain engaged in social media as a way to influence our culture. But as all our youth pastor&#8217;s warned us, we need to be careful of how we let it shape us. So, I&#8217;m not saying we should all pull away from social media. I think a host of evangelism can be done through a screen in our culture.</p>
<p>I am saying that I found myself guilty this morning. I realized I&#8217;ve not been putting first things first. I&#8217;ve been putting them last. When there is time. At the bottom of the to-do list. And those priorities will never stand. The Word will never shape me because I&#8217;m not letting it take the rightful place in my life. That is not anyone&#8217;s fault but mine.</p>
<p>I had thought of New Year&#8217;s Resolutions in abstract terms. I knew I needed more discipline in my spiritual life and my physical life, so I was just going to abstractly focus on discipline. I now realize an abstract one word focus isn&#8217;t going to get me where I need to be. Sure, it will help me think of where I need to be. But I need action steps. I need firm commitments to being disciplined.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>We spend our days living out whatever faith we have in some sort of action. How we spend our days and the ways we point and shape our children matter! Let&#8217;s stop and do a quick performance review on how we&#8217;ve done through these trying times. This past year gave us a lot of opportunities...</p>
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<p>We spend our days living out whatever faith we have in some sort of action. How we spend our days and the ways we point and shape our children matter! Let&#8217;s stop and do a quick performance review on how we&#8217;ve done through these trying times. </p>



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<p>This past year gave us a lot of opportunities to show real faith in action. Through all the turmoil of the year, what is the take away that your kids will remember? Let&#8217;s give ourselves a bit of a performance review, shall we? Not to beat ourselves up, but to see where we have failed, where we have succeeded, and how we can better show faith and action.  </p>



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<p>&#8220;Hear, O Israel: The <span class="uppercase">Lord</span> our God, the <span class="uppercase">Lord</span> is one. You shall love the <span class="uppercase">Lord</span> your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.&#8221;</p>
<cite>Deuteronomy 6:4-9, ESV</cite></blockquote>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Faith with Hope</h2>



<p>Through all the scary medical stuff and navigating a new virus in the world, did your kids see your faith? You had the opportunity to show them in a real-life situation where we, as Christians, place our hope. Did you display that faith for them? Did you walk them through praying and hoping and trusting even when things were uncertain? Did they see you panic, make decisions out of fear, or try to secure your own future? </p>



<p>This past year, we got the chance to show our kids and the world that we place our trust in Jesus— that we are not a people without hope. We got to show what life lived-out in hope looks like. We get to show them the action side of faith.  I&#8217;m not saying this was easy, at all. I&#8217;m not suggesting it wasn&#8217;t a struggle. But did you struggle? Did you come to the altar with your concerns and your heart or did you just stockpile toilet paper and binge on the news? </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Action in Love</h2>



<p>Through political disagreement and national hurting and turmoil, did your kids see your love for your neighbors? Did you help them see the world as Jesus does? A world of hurt and pain crying out for justice and desperately seeking truth (whether they find it or not)? Did you show them that &#8220;the other side&#8221; (whatever that might be for you) is filled with the faces of men and women made in His image? </p>



<p>We had the opportunity to <em>not</em> vilify those with whom we disagreed but to love them and pray for them. I am not suggesting we back away from the truth or let lies dig deep into the soil of culture; I&#8217;m simply asking if we were able to love the people even while rejecting their ideas. It may be a difficult task, but loving our neighbors isn&#8217;t optional. We should destroy ideas, not people. (Thank you, <a href="http://mamabearapologetics.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Mama Bear Apologetics</em></a>.) Those people are people whom Jesus died to save. He loves them to the end. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Prayer As Faith and Action</h2>



<p>Through unemployment, supply shortages, and general uncertainty, did your kids see you pray? Did they see you seek the Kingdom of God? Did they see you stepping out to do what it took to help others in your community— others who may have lost jobs, who may not have been able to find supplies, or who found themselves spiraling in the uncertainty? Did they see you step up and be the hands and feet of Jesus in a lost and dying world? Did they see you earnestly seeking the Lord and calling on Him? </p>



<p>We had the opportunity to show people the love of Jesus in such tangible ways. We were able to feed those who had no food. We had the opportunity to be salt and light in a very dark and decaying time. Did we take the opportunity? Or did we let the darkness, the decay hold us down?</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">If You Did Poorly&#8230;</h2>



<p>If you find that, in retrospect, you didn&#8217;t do such a great job, you didn&#8217;t take the opportunities as you could have, you let fear rule your heart instead of King Jesus, you let disagreement turn to bitterness and hate and failed to see the person made in God&#8217;s image underneath the ideas, you hoarded up for yourself here on earth to protect yourself instead of looking for opportunities to spread the Gospel in a tangible way, you shut yourself off from the grace of God because you would not seek His face. If you find that you&#8217;ve pretty much failed this performance review— great! </p>



<p>You now have the opportunity to adjust. You&#8217;ve recognized your own insufficiency and know even more deeply how much you need a Savior. It is never too late to change our ways. No, we won&#8217;t get those missed opportunities back, but other opportunities lie around the corner. The world is still hurting. The world is still lost. The world is still dying. And you&#8217;re still here— still here to hope, still here to trust, still here to seek truth, still here to love your neighbor, still here to be salt and light, still here to cling to Jesus with all that you have and gather those little ones around the foot of the Cross with you. You&#8217;re still here to show your faith in action. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">If You Did Well&#8230;</h2>



<p>If you find that you did a pretty good job, keep it up. I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re well aware that it isn&#8217;t of your own accord you&#8217;ve been able to do any of this. If you&#8217;ve assessed yourself honestly and find that you did use the opportunities given to you, you know this was only through God&#8217;s grace. </p>



<p>You clung to Jesus hard this past year, maybe harder than ever before. You were bombarded on all sides, so you knelt at the foot of the Cross and dug in for the long haul. Keep that up. Keep relying on Jesus. Keep clinging to Him. Keep taking His yoke upon you and placing your children under His wing. We&#8217;ve got more to go. The Kingdom is here and not yet, so we must keep choosing each morning to live our lives with Jesus as King. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Let&#8217;s Keep Showing Our Faith in Action</h2>



<p>Today, the world is still in turmoil. There are still hurting people all around us. Political opinions and agendas still divide us. People are still getting sick. Even though the toilet paper shelves at the store now look properly stocked, other supplies are now in shortage. </p>



<p>The world is still dark. You still have the opportunity to show your children what faith-in-action looks like. You still have the opportunity to turn your fear over to Jesus and live in faith instead. You still have the opportunity to love your neighbor. Take the opportunity you&#8217;re given to live for Jesus in front of your kids. Your life is a megaphone into theirs. Be salt and light and show them what it means to preserve and show the way in a dark, twisted, dying world. </p>



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<p>&#8220;Now therefore fear the <span class="uppercase">Lord</span> and serve Him in sincerity and in faithfulness. Put away the gods that your fathers served beyond the River and in Egypt, and serve the <span class="uppercase">Lord</span>. And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the <span class="uppercase">Lord</span>, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the hods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the <span class="uppercase">Lord</span>.&#8221;</p>
<cite>Joshua 24:14-15, ESV</cite></blockquote>



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